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Helping a Person Heal

Healing is not a destination, it's a journey.

What is healing? Is it putting bandages on a wound and letting it rest? If so, what about emotional or mental healing? Can we put bandages on that too? What about the scars? Will they ever disappear? Or will we have to live with them forever?


All these questions are valid and worth answering. Just like physical healing, mental and emotional healing is, at first, painful. But slowly and gradually, the pain subsides. The scars and the pain, when touched or pressed in the future, may remain. But we learn to live with them, and they become a part of us. All those scars become our definition of who we are and how we are. Some are small, some are big, some are not even visible, and some are hidden deep. But every scar defines a story, be it good or bad; it is ours forever.


Healing is a process that can be painful at times. But it is important to take it up in order to lead a healthy and peaceful life. It cannot be easy, but the people around us whom we love make it easy and worth going through. To begin the healing process, one needs to accept that something is wrong and needs to be cured. One cannot find the solution if one does not know where the problem lies.


Why Healing is Important

  • Life becomes easier to live.

  • It gives you stability, both mental and emotional.

  • It is fair for your loved ones, as they are in a constant state of concern.

  • You will be more likely to be able to achieve your goals.

  • You will be able to feel the things around you in a better way.

  • Life would become more beautiful.


Here are a few tips to help you in the healing process:

Take Small Steps at a Time:

Do not try to overload yourself or push yourself too much. Everything will not go as planned, so sometimes just let it go with the flow. Take baby steps and be proud of even the smallest thing you do for the betterment of your healing process. Even the smallest changes and steps can encourage you to keep going on this journey.


Nothing Is Perfect:

There is no ultimate stage of healing. It is different for everyone, and being at the optimum level is not important. It is about finding peace, which can be found at any and every stage. With every passing stage, there is an improvement in our lifestyle and the pain we deal with. So never think that this process of healing is 100% effective. You are the one who needs to find the right stage.


Never Lose Patience:

Losing patience and persistence can be a common feeling, but you must trust the process and believe that you will get there someday. Every day of this journey is a witness to the fact that you can and will succeed.


Do Not Expect Yourself to Be Exceptionally Good at It:

One should set real and achievable goals for themselves. Our expectations of ourselves should be realistic. There is no hurry. Smaller goals are easier to achieve, which keeps us motivated to go on.


Falling and Getting Up Are Part of This Process:

Do not get demotivated by setbacks. Instead, accept them as being a part of this process. It is a process of healing, but that doesn’t mean it can't inflict new pain. Do not get scared of these failures. These are all new life lessons that will push you forward.


Self-care and Self-compassion Are Important:

This process can be exhausting, so do not forget to give yourself rewards in the form of self-care. Give yourself what your body needs, be it physically or mentally. Understand the signs our body gives us. Do not forget that stopping and sitting for a while is healthy, but don’t forget to start back.


Give Your Past Feelings Space to Settle:

Be willing to face the feelings from your past, which tend to stick around or come back after a while. Feel the feelings and give them space to settle down. Avoiding them would never help. They would gradually become a part of your past and stick there.


Asking for Help Is Normal:

Healing doesn’t mean that you have to do everything on your own. You can ask for help and make your loved ones a part of this journey. This will let you explore new ways and get guidance. Emotional support from others plays a major role in times when you feel like giving up.


Conclusion

Healing is a journey worth taking. It may be tough at times, but it helps us breathe even in polluted air; otherwise, even the purest of pure air feels suffocating. It is the quick removal of the bandage and the subsequent caressing of it. Talking is very important. Healing is not about forgetting what has happened; it is about knowing it, accepting it, and making peace with it. Running away is never a good idea; it's better to take the difficult path instead, which becomes easier later. Take it slow, and it will all be worth it in the end.


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